I know that I have a lot to give in a relationship. I know all the potential I have to explore, make and create with a partner.... Today I thought about how happy I could be just baking amazing things all day with love.

However I am like a rather untapped resource in that regard. I've had boyfriends mostly with very little inspiration. If I said "what would you like to do today?" they would probably reply "dunno, what do you want to do?"

"grrrrrrrr!!!"

I've had a few friends who have complained of their partners lack of creativity when it comes to spending time together. Sometimes I think we go a bit numb when we are IN the relationship and just can't think beyond "dinner and a movie".

I just thought I'd put a few ideas 'out there' for future lovers, and how they might impress me! Obviously direct copies of illustrated date examples is not very inspiring, but you may just get the drift.

The other bonus is that they're mostly free. I'm never impressed with money or cliches. Every time a man has given me a single red rose wrapped in plastic I've had to end the relationship through sheer cliche-disgust. I'd prefer you collected varieties of purple flowers from the park and tied them up with twine. That has meaning in it's making.

Here are my date suggestions:

What beautiful date ideas do you have? Or have you experienced?